This week is Babyloss Awareness week and I have been thinking about some of the comments that have been made to me in the course of my work. Most people are very kind and thoughtful with what they say. However sometimes the things that people say can be really hurtfull. A recent thing that was said to me when talking about the work of "Brief Lives - Remembered", was "I don't know what the fuss is about, It's just a baby". 

 

The death of a baby is a loss like no other, NO it is not just about a baby, it is about so much more. It is about the baby who will never become a toddler, schoolchild, teenager or a parent and so much more.....

 

It's about the lost relationship off a mother and father and their child. or of a sibling, auntie's & uncles, Grandparents.....

 

It's about the lost plans, hopes and dreams. It's about not having a chance to be the person they could have been. it's about so much more.

 

 

 

We will never forget - Loving and Remembering our children now and always.